quotes and a poem

Life is meant to be a never-ending education, and when this is fully appreciated, we are no longer survivors but adventurers.
~ David McNally

Books about relationships talk about how to get the love you need, how to keep love, and so on. But the right question to ask is: How do I become a more loving human being?
~ Sam Keen

In my day, we didn't have self-esteem; we had self-respect, and no more of it than we had earned.
~ Jane Haddam

I get up every morning determined both to change the world and to have one hell of a good time. Sometimes this makes planning the day difficult.
~ E. B. White

When I dare to be powerful, to use my strength in the service of my vision, then it becomes less and less important whether I am afraid.
~ Audre Lorde

The world breaks everyone, and afterwards, some are strong in the broken places.
~ Ernest Hemingway

To be at peace does not mean to be in a place where there is no noise, trouble, or hard work. It means to be in the midst of those things and still be calm in your heart.
~ Anonymous

"Old friends pass away, new friends appear. It is just like the days. An old day passes, a new day arrives. The important thing is to make it meaningful: a meaningful friend -- or a meaningful day."
~dalai lama


The Invitation
by Oriah Mountain Dreamer, Native Elder

It doesn't interest me what you do for a living:
I want to know what you ache for,
and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart's longing.
It doesn't interest me how old you are:
I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool for love,
for your dreams, for the adventure of being alive.
I doesn't interest me what planets are squaring your moon:
I want to know if you have touched the center of your own sorrow,
if you have been opened by life's betrayals
or have become shriveled and closed from fear of further pain.
I want to know if you can sit with pain, mine or your own,
without moving to hide it or fade it or fix it.
I want to know if you can be with joy, mine or your own,
if you can dance with wildness and let ecstasy
fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes without
cautioning us to be careful, be realistic, or to remember
the limitations of being human.
It doesn't interest me if the story you're telling me is true:
I want to know if you can disappoint another to be true to yourself.
if you can hear the accusation of betrayal and not betray your own soul.
I want to know if you can be faithful and therefore be trustworthy.
I want to know if you can see beauty even if it's not pretty every day.
and if you can source your life from Gods' presence.
I want to know if you can live with failure, yours and mine,
and still stand on the edge of a lake and shout to
the silver of the full moon, "YES!"
It doesn't interest me to know where you live or how much money you have:
I want to know if you can get up after a night of grief and despair,
weary and bruised to the bone, and do what needs to be done for the children.
It doesn't interest me who you are, how you came to be here:
I want to know if you will stand in the center of the fire with me
and not shrink back.
It doesn't interest me where or what or with whom you have studied:
I want to know what sustains you from the inside when all else falls away.
I want to know if you can be alone with yourself,
And if you truly like the company you keep in the empty moments.